There is a light in my parents’ house that never truly goes out.

It hangs above the dining table—nothing special, just a simple round lamp with a slightly yellow glow. During the day, sunlight is enough. At night, that lamp turns on and stays on until everyone has gone to bed. Even then, someone—usually my mother—leaves it glowing for a little while longer, as if the house itself needs time to fall asleep.

When I was a child, I never noticed it.

It was simply there, like air.

But as I grew older and began leaving home more often, that light became something else. It became a symbol. A signal. A quiet promise that no matter how far I wandered, there would always be something waiting for me in the dark.

My family has never been particularly expressive with emotions. We do not make dramatic declarations. We do not hug for long periods of time. We are the kind of people who show love by cutting fruit and placing it silently on the table beside you.

My father works as an accountant in a small local company. Numbers are his language. He trusts them because they make sense. Income minus expenses equals balance. Effort plus time equals progress.

At least, that is what he believes.

He wakes up at six every morning without an alarm. His body has memorized the routine. He folds his blanket carefully, washes his face, and reads the newspaper while sipping black coffee. He rarely misses a day of work. Even when he is sick, he insists it is “just a small thing.”

As a child, I thought he was unbreakable.

My mother is softer but no less strong. She works at a public hospital as a nurse. Her shifts are long and unpredictable. Some nights, she returns home long after we have gone to bed. I would wake up briefly at the sound of the door unlocking, the faint rustle of her bag being set down, the quiet footsteps moving through the house.

Even exhausted, she would check on us.

She would open my bedroom door just slightly. I could feel her presence even with my eyes closed. A blanket adjusted. A gentle touch to my hair.

Then she would leave, and the house would fall silent again.

I have one grandmother who lived with us until I was in university. She occupied the smallest room in the house, but her presence filled every corner.

She woke up earlier than anyone else, shuffling slowly to the kitchen to boil water for tea. She told stories that seemed endless—about war, about hunger, about a time when electricity was a luxury and rice was rationed.

When I was young, I did not fully listen. Her stories felt like relics from another world.

Now, I wish I had listened more carefully.

Our house was not large, but it was layered with life.

The walls held framed photographs: my parents on their wedding day, my first birthday, my graduation from primary school. Each picture froze a version of us that no longer existed.

Time moved quietly in our home.

It moved in my height against the doorframe, marked in pencil by my father every year on my birthday.

It moved in the deepening lines on my grandmother’s face.

It moved in the way my parents began discussing health more often than ambition.

When I turned nineteen, I left for university abroad.

It was the first time I had ever been on an airplane. My parents accompanied me to the airport. My father carried my suitcase even though I insisted I could manage. My mother repeated instructions I already knew—keep your passport safe, call when you arrive, wear warm clothes.

At the departure gate, there was a brief, awkward silence.

My father cleared his throat. “Study well,” he said.

My mother hugged me tightly, longer than usual.

Then I walked away.

Living in another country felt like stepping into a different version of myself. I spoke a different language every day. I learned to cook simple meals. I learned how to be alone.

But no matter how independent I tried to become, there were nights when the loneliness pressed heavily against my chest.

On those nights, I would call home.

Because of the time difference, it was often late evening there. The dining room lamp would be on. I could see it through the video call, glowing softly behind my parents.

“Did you eat?” my mother would ask immediately.

“Yes.”

“Are you sleeping enough?”

“Yes.”

My father would lean slightly into the camera. “Is it cold?”

Sometimes the conversation was short. Sometimes we ran out of things to say.

But the light above the table remained on until the call ended.

During my second year abroad, my grandmother passed away.

The news reached me through a trembling phone call. I remember sitting on my narrow dormitory bed, staring at the wall as my mother spoke.

“She went peacefully,” my mother said. “In her sleep.”

I could hear my father in the background, unusually quiet.

I could not return home in time for the funeral.

That helplessness carved something inside me. For the first time, I understood that distance has a cost. Independence has a price.

When I finally returned home months later, her room was still intact. Her teacup remained on the shelf. Her wooden comb lay on the small table near her bed.

But the house felt different.

Quieter.

The light above the dining table seemed softer somehow.

Grief does not arrive loudly in families like mine. It settles gently, like dust. It appears in pauses during conversation. In the absence of familiar footsteps. In the empty chair that no one moves.

Yet life continued.

My father continued going to work. My mother continued her hospital shifts. The lamp continued to glow every evening.

Years later, when I completed my studies and returned home permanently, I noticed something that startled me.

My father had begun turning on the dining room light earlier than before.

Even before sunset.

As if he wanted to push back the darkness before it had a chance to settle.

One evening, I asked him why.

He shrugged. “The room feels warmer with the light.”

That was all.

But I understood.

The light was never just about visibility.

It was about presence.

About saying: someone is here.

About resisting the quiet that can sometimes feel too heavy.

Now I am older. I see the fragility in my parents that I once ignored.

My father reads the newspaper with glasses perched low on his nose.

My mother massages her wrists after long shifts.

They move more slowly through the house.

And yet, every evening, that lamp turns on.

Sometimes I sit at the table with them long after dinner is finished. We talk about ordinary things—neighbors, groceries, rising prices. There is comfort in the predictability.

Occasionally, I imagine a future where the house will no longer belong to us. Where the furniture will be rearranged by strangers. Where the walls will be repainted.

The thought frightens me.

But then I realize something important.

The house is not the true source of the light.

We are.

Family is not defined by architecture or location. It is defined by constancy. By small rituals repeated over decades. By the decision to remain connected even when life pulls in different directions.

One day, I may live in another city again. I may build a home of my own. I may hang a different lamp above a different table.

But I know this:

I will leave it on a little longer each night.

I will check on sleeping children.

I will ask, “Did you eat?”

Because somewhere in my memory, there will always be a simple round lamp glowing softly in a modest dining room.

A light that never truly goes out.

And as long as that light exists—whether in a house, in a memory, or in the steady rhythm of love passed from one generation to the next—I will always know the way back home.