“Something Is WRONG With Me” Ray J Calls Out All The 10,000 Women He’s SLEPT With To Go CHECK UP | HO’

If you thought Thanksgiving weekend drama was limited to dry turkey, burnt mac and cheese, and uninvited cousins, think again — because Ray J just turned a family holiday into a full-blown Hollywood scandal that has EVERYBODY talking.

This isn’t mild, cute celebrity mess.

This is guns drawn, kids crying, ex-wife screaming, 11,900 body count confessions, and a spiritual meltdown so intense it has half the internet praying and the other half writing think pieces.

Ray J — singer, actor, entrepreneur, and longtime chaos enthusiast — isn’t just back in headlines.

He’s detonating them.

And in his latest emotional spiral, he went on camera and said something nobody expected:

“Something is wrong with me. I slept with 10,000 women, and every single one of them needs to go get checked.”

Sis.
Bro.
Everybody.
Let’s talk about it.

Because this story?
It’s WILD.

THE THANKSGIVING MELTDOWN THAT STARTED IT ALL

While most families were passing gravy, Ray J and Princess Love were reenacting an episode of Law & Order: Domestic Unit.

According to police reports and Ray J’s own rant:

Ray J and Princess got into an argument
Princess tried to take their kids out of the house
A drunk male friend allegedly entered Ray J’s bedroom
Ray J felt “threatened”
A firearm appeared
The situation spiraled into a 911 call
Ray J was arrested

Everyone knew Thanksgiving brings drama — but THIS?

This was next-level.

And while the internet begged for answers, both Ray J and Princess Love finally spoke out.

But their stories?

Two completely different universes.

RAY J’S SIDE: “I WAS DEFENDING MY KIDS!”

In a post-arrest video, Ray J pulled out his phone and let his emotions fly.

He was sweating.
He was pacing.
He was shaking.
And he was talking FAST.

“You in my house. We argue, fine. But the kids? The kids were SLEEP, and you wanna wake them up to take them with a drunk dude? NO. I will defend my kids, my space, and my BED.”

He claims:

Princess tried to take the kids while drunk
A man entered his bedroom
The man reached toward his child
He grabbed his gun to protect his family
Police misunderstood the situation

Ray J was adamant:

“I’m the father. I’m protecting my kids. Period.”

But just hours later…

PRINCESS LOVE’S SIDE: “HE WAVED A GUN AROUND MY CHILDREN.”

Princess wasted ZERO time responding.

Calm.
Clear.
No theatrics.
Just ice-cold truth.

“I’m the best mother. I do everything ALONE. I take them to school alone. I put them to bed alone. I would NEVER leave my kids with a man waving a gun around.”

She doubled down with:

Ray J is unstable
Ray J has been “terrorizing women” for years
She refuses to expose her children to danger again
She’s DONE covering up his behavior

And THEN — with the precision of a lawyer — she dropped the bomb:

“The last time I left them with you, they found you naked in a bed with another woman.”

That one line alone nearly set the internet on fire.

But the most explosive part of this story?

Hasn’t even arrived yet.

THE 11,900 BODY COUNT CONFESSION THAT SHOOK THE WORLD

Because just days before this family meltdown, Ray J went viral for an entirely different reason —
and trust, it didn’t calm anyone’s nerves.

On a podcast interview, Ray J casually revealed:

“I’ve slept with about 10,000 women. Actually… probably 11,900.”

Everyone in the room froze.

Someone asked:

“HOW is that even possible?”

Ray J responded like it was nothing:

“Once I hit 10,000, we had a celebration at Booby Trap. Confetti and everything.”

Confetti??

Sir, you organized a PARADE for a body count milestone??

Ray J’s numbers forced the internet to do the math:

11,900 women = a new partner EVERY DAY for 32 YEARS.

Mind you, Ray J is only 43.

So unless he started hooking up at age 11 like he was preparing for the Olympics…
the math is mathing in a very disturbing way.

And the internet dragged him:

“How many STD tests do you take a week??”
“Princess, PLEASE sign those papers.”
“This man needs holy water AND therapy.”
“His PH balance gotta be screaming.”
“11,900 bodies??? Sir, you are LEGION.”

It became a meme, a movement, and a cultural event all at once.

But Ray J didn’t double down.

He didn’t flex.

He didn’t brag.

Instead…

He broke.

RAY J’S BREAKING POINT: “THERE’S SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME.”

After his confession went viral, Ray J shocked everybody by admitting:

“Something is wrong with me. I know it. The drinking, the numbers, the pain… I’m hurting.”

Then came the line nobody expected:

“All the women I’ve slept with — y’all need to go get checked. All of you.”

He wasn’t joking.
He wasn’t bragging.
He wasn’t smirking.

This was a man in crisis.

A man who knows he’s spiraling.

A man who just confessed to something that sounds less like a flex and more like a cry for help.

And here’s the twist:

Someone actually came to his defense.

CHRISEAN ROCK DEFENDS RAY J: “HE’S HURTING. HE’S BROKEN.”

Of ALL PEOPLE…
Chrisean Rock stepped forward with empathy.

She said:

“I seen this coming. Ray J get drunk how I used to get drunk — just to be heard. He’s rejecting God right now because his heart is broken.”

She wasn’t joking.
She wasn’t messy.
She wasn’t chaotic.

She sounded like someone who sees a wounded person.

And she’s not wrong.

This is the same Ray J we grew up watching on:

The Sinbad Show
Moesha
One Wish era
Love & Hip Hop
For the Love of Ray J

We’ve watched him grow.
We’ve watched him struggle.
We’ve watched him self-destruct.
And now we’re seeing the fallout in real time.

THE INTERNET’S VERDICT: RAY J NEEDS HELP — NOW

Here’s the overwhelming sentiment online:

Ray J is not okay.

Not emotionally.
Not spiritually.
Not mentally.
Not behaviorally.

His own speech revealed:

trauma
addiction
heartbreak
desperation
spiritual disconnection
loneliness
avoidance
pain hiding behind humor

People commented:

“This isn’t funny anymore.”
“He’s crying out for help.”
“He needs therapy, not interviews.”
“Where is his family??”
“His soul looks tired.”

Even his fans — the loyal ones — are begging him to get counseling.

Because when someone says:

“Something is wrong with me.”

…you listen.

BUT LET’S GET REAL ABOUT THE 11,900 PARTNERS

The internet couldn’t help itself.

People did calculations, diagrams, timelines, and flow charts trying to figure out HOW Ray J reached these numbers.

And the consensus?

It doesn’t matter if the exact number is real.

The behavior is.

Sleeping with thousands of people — especially without being in sex work — screams:

trauma
addiction
emotional emptiness
validation seeking
unresolved wounds
compulsive coping
low self-worth disguised as confidence

Body count isn’t the issue.
But THIS scale of body count?

That’s no longer physical behavior.
That’s a psychological cry for help.

PRINCESS LOVE RESPONDS: “THIS IS NOT CUTE. THIS IS DANGEROUS.”

Princess didn’t hold back.

She said:

Ray J is unstable
His actions endanger their kids
She’s the only present parent
He is spiraling
She refuses to let him influence their children

And honestly?

People agreed.

Because between:

the gun incident
the emotional outbursts
the drinking
the confessions
the spiritual breakdown
the bizarre interviews

…Princess looks like the only grounded person in the room.

The internet begged her:

“Sign the divorce papers IMMEDIATELY.”

SO WHAT HAPPENS NOW?

Ray J claims he wants to:

retire
get therapy
slow down
confront his demons
reconnect spiritually
heal

But whether he actually follows through…

That’s the question.

Right now, Ray J is standing on the edge of something big:

Either a breakdown
…or a breakthrough.

The whole world is watching, hoping it’s the second one.

Not for the memes.
Not for Princess.
Not for Princess’ new edges.

But for the kids.

Because at the end of the day — all the music, podcasts, confessions, scandals, body count jokes, and TMZ headlines mean NOTHING compared to their safety and their future.

FINAL WORD: RAY J, GO GET HELP. FOR REAL.

This isn’t entertainment anymore.

This is a man unraveling publicly, loudly, tragically, and painfully.

And the saddest part?

He knows it.

He said it.

“Something is wrong with me.”

For his sake —
for Princess’ sake —
for those kids —
for the 11,900 women he’s STILL asking to go get checked —

Let’s hope Ray J gets what he needs:

Not a podcast.
Not applause.
Not another headline.

But HELP.

Real help.