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He rolled my shorts up & tried to slide IT in while tattooing me! I EXPOSED  him for SA! - YouTube

What was supposed to be a routine tattoo appointment turned into a nightmare that a young woman says she will carry for the rest of her life.

In a raw, emotional story-time video that has since spread rapidly across social media, a woman identified here as Julia alleges she was sexually assaulted during a private tattoo session at a man’s home in New Orleans. Her account—supported by contemporaneous text messages, a police report, and hours of disturbing detail—has ignited a national conversation about safety, consent, and accountability in informal tattoo settings

This is not just a viral clip. It is an allegation of abuse of power, of boundaries violated while a client lay vulnerable on a tattoo table, and of fear so paralyzing that survival—not confrontation—became the only priority.

“I Thought I Was Tripping”—Until It Wouldn’t Stop

Julia says the appointment was scheduled for 3:00 p.m. She arrived alone. The artist was late—about 30 minutes—but nothing about that seemed unusual at first. What did stand out, she says, was the location. Rather than a professional studio, the tattoo was done at the artist’s home. He reportedly told her he had another shop farther away, and this location was “closer,” so she agreed.

They had followed each other on Instagram for some time. He seemed normal. Professional. Safe.

She wore a casual brown two-piece set—shorts and a shirt. The tattoo placement was on her leg, an area she says did not require her shorts to be pulled up excessively. Still, she complied when he asked her to adjust them.

He Rolled my shorts up & Tried to put IT in while doing my Tattoo! She  Exposed a tattoo man for SA! - YouTube

Then, according to Julia, he took control of the clothing himself.

She says he rolled her shorts higher—past what was necessary—tucking them into her underwear until they resembled a swimsuit. Paper towels were placed near the fabric creases, which she initially assumed was to protect against ink.

That assumption did not last long.

As the session progressed, Julia says the artist lowered the tattoo table unusually close to the floor and positioned his seat so that his body was level with hers—his legs not beneath the table, but alongside it. She began to feel uncomfortable.

Then came the moment that made her freeze.

“I think his private area is on my back,” she texted a friend, according to her account. “But maybe I’m tripping.”

She wasn’t.

“He Kept Pulling Me Back Onto Him”

Julia alleges that throughout the session, the artist repeatedly pressed his genitals against her body. Each time she shifted away, she says, he physically pulled her back—turning her so that she was effectively lying on his lap.

“I’m literally sitting on his lap,” she recalls. When she said she felt like she was going to fall, he allegedly replied, “No, you’re fine.”

She was not fine.

She describes being alone in a house she did not know, an hour away from home, with two men present—the artist and his brother somewhere else in the house. She says fear dictated every decision she made.

“I didn’t know what he was capable of,” she explains. “If I called the police, I thought he was going to kill me.”

The alleged behavior, she says, did not stop. He continued pulling at her shorts, opening the fabric, positioning himself against her. Even when he turned to reach for tools, she claims, he kept his body pressed into her.

The session, she says, lasted from around 3:00 p.m. until after 9:00 p.m.

For six hours, she endured what she describes as repeated, unwanted sexual contact—while trapped on a tattoo table.

Why She Didn’t “Just Get Up and Leave”

Predictably, critics online questioned why Julia didn’t walk out. She addressed those questions directly.

She is 5’2” and weighs approximately 128 pounds. She says she was alone, outnumbered, and inside the alleged perpetrator’s home. Leaving safely, in her mind, was not guaranteed.

“I’m not going to fight this man,” she said. “He’s crazy enough to do this—there’s no telling what else he’s capable of.”

Experts in trauma response note that freezing, appeasing, and compliance are common survival mechanisms during sexual assault. Julia’s account aligns with what many victims describe: calculating risk in real time, prioritizing escape over confrontation.

When the appointment finally ended, she says she got into her car and broke down.

“I cried. I cried because I know this has happened before.”

The Refund That Raised Red Flags

Julia says she never accused the artist directly during the appointment. She “played it cool,” focused solely on getting out safely.

Then something happened that, to her, confirmed her worst fears.

The artist refunded her money—without being asked.

“That’s how you know you’re guilty of something,” she said. “I didn’t say anything.”

She believes the refund was an attempt to preempt a complaint or buy her silence.

Police Were Called—But Silence Followed

Contrary to accusations that she “only went online,” Julia insists she contacted law enforcement immediately after leaving. She says she filed a police report and gave a full statement. Officers told her they would speak with the artist and follow up.

She says she has not yet heard back.

“I called the police,” she repeated. “I didn’t just tell y’all.”

For many survivors, the lack of immediate action compounds trauma—turning an already devastating experience into one marked by frustration, doubt, and isolation.

“I Know I’m Not the Only One”

Julia says she shared her story publicly for one reason: awareness.

She believes the alleged behavior was not a first offense. She fears other women may have experienced the same thing and stayed silent.

“There’s no way you just do that out of nowhere,” she said. “Nobody’s ever said anything before.”

Her video triggered an online frenzy. Internet users began searching for the alleged artist, some mistakenly targeting the wrong person.

A Different Tattoo Artist Speaks Out

As the story spread, a tattoo artist based in Charlotte, North Carolina publicly addressed the situation—after his social media accounts were mistakenly flooded with accusations.

He denied any involvement, clarified that he was not the individual accused, and emphasized professional standards.

“Consent is the sexiest thing ever,” he said. “Everything should be kept professional.”

He urged the public to direct attention correctly and not destroy innocent lives in the process.

His response underscored a critical point: while accountability is essential, misidentification can cause collateral damage—especially in viral cases fueled by outrage.

A Tattoo She Can’t Escape

One of the most heartbreaking details of Julia’s account is this: the tattoo is permanent.

Every time she looks at her leg, she says, she is reminded of what happened on that table.

The flowers and waves etched into her skin are no longer art alone—they are memory.

“That’s what hurts the most,” she says. “I have to live with that.”

A Larger Problem in an Unregulated Space

This case highlights a growing concern within the tattoo industry: informal, home-based tattooing without oversight.

Licensed studios typically have rules—open layouts, clear consent protocols, and multiple staff present. Private home sessions remove those safeguards.

Advocates stress the importance of:

Bringing a friend to appointments

Avoiding private residences for body work

Trusting instincts and leaving at the first sign of discomfort

Reporting misconduct immediately, even when it feels terrifying

Julia says she hopes her story prevents even one person from experiencing what she did.

“Don’t be like me,” she warned. “Please.”

Allegations, Not a Verdict—But a Call to Listen

It is important to note: these are allegations. No conviction has been announced at the time of writing. The legal process will determine what happens next.

But history shows that many sexual assault cases begin exactly like this—with one voice breaking the silence.

What happens next depends on investigators, prosecutors, and a system that survivors often feel was never built for them.

Why Stories Like This Matter

Sexual assault does not always look like violence in a dark alley. Sometimes it looks like a trusted professional exploiting proximity, authority, and silence.

Sometimes it happens while someone is lying still, trying not to scream, counting minutes until they can leave alive.

Julia’s story forces an uncomfortable truth into the open: survival often comes at the cost of immediate resistance—and that does not make it consent.

An Ending Still Unwritten

Julia says she is not asking for revenge. She is asking for awareness, accountability, and safety.

Whether justice follows remains to be seen.

But one thing is certain: a story meant to be hidden is now public, and the conversation it has sparked is not going away.

If even one person rethinks a “private appointment” because of her story, Julia says it was worth it.

And in a culture that has long asked survivors why they didn’t leave, fight, or speak sooner—perhaps the better question is finally being asked:

Why did someone think they could do this at all?